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Gottman Quiz

Please block all distractions allow yourself 3 to 4 minutes to answer the Gottman Quiz. This quiz is provided by the Gottman Institute.

Our families visit when invited...*
- Yes
- No
Family visits are satisfying...*
- Yes
- No
I enjoy speaking with family members by phone...*
- Yes
- No
Family members give advice they are asked...*
- Yes
- No
You feel loyal toward each other...*
- Yes
- No
You listen carefully to each other...*
- Yes
- No
You know each other's histories...*
- Yes
- No
You pay attention to each other's moods and body language...*
- Yes
- No
You share your thoughts and feelings...*
- Yes
- No
You allow each other privacy when asked and respect it...*
- Yes
- No
You respect each other as separate, autonomous people...*
- Yes
- No
You accept the best gift you can give your child is a strong relationship between the two of you...
- Yes
- No
Skip this question if you do not have children.
You do your best to stay in touch with each other emotionally and nurture your relationship...*
- Yes
- No
You set aside time every week for the two of you to spend time alone together...*
- Yes
- No
You never blame each other for the stress that comes with a crisis...*
- Yes
- No
You face difficult times as a team...*
- Yes
- No
You look for ways to support each other emotionally...*
- Yes
- No
- Third Choice
You help each other keep your perspective when there is a crisis...*
- Yes
- No
You seek outside support during times of crisis...This question is required.*
- Yes
- No
(talking to friends and family, seeing a counselor).
You have had serious conflicts, but you have not allowed them to permanently damage your relationship...*
- Yes
- No
You respect the other person's right to stand his or her ground...*
- Yes
- No
You may find anger uncomfortable, but you accept that it is healthy to express in a safe way...*
- Yes
- No
You call a timeout when your emotions escalate...*
- Yes
- No
You know how to calm yourselves down...*
- Yes
- No
You take care to speak and listen non-defensively...*
- Yes
- No
You take care to validate the other person's point of view, even when you disagree with it...*
- Yes
- No
You sometimes have different levels of sexual needs, but you make room for each other's changing levels of desire...*
- Yes
- No
You are honest with each other about your changing sexual desires and feelings...*
- Yes
- No
You make time for your sexual relationship...This question is required.*
- Yes
- No
You have fun together...*
- Yes
- No
You make each other laugh...*
- Yes
- No
You find each other interesting...*
- Yes
- No
You each have your own interests that you pursue on your own...*
- Yes
- No
It is okay to be vulnerable when you are with your partner...*
- Yes
- No
You understand each other...*
- Yes
- No
You encourage each other...*
- Yes
- No
You pay attention to each other's moods and respond when the other seems needy...*
- Yes
- No
You have good memories of when you fell in love with your partner...*
- Yes
- No
You are glad to be growing older with your partner...*
- Yes
- No
You show affection for each other...*
- Yes
- No
You apologize for the hurtful things you may say or do...*
- Yes
- No
You show each other empathy...*
- Yes
- No
You are polite to each other...*
- Yes
- No
Now, what's your full name?*
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