This book also does a fantastic job of introducing the concept of women who are initiators and those who are receivers. Validation, education, and differing mindsets combined with varying needs for about how foreplay looks goes into making sex enjoyable. This book helps to set realistic expectations around sex and talks about how to manage desire differences in fairly easy to read language.
When we talked about this resource in our book club, everyone agreed this was one of the most helpful tools we could provide to our couples in order to get conversations going in new directions. This book can also sometimes paired with another helpful book on woman’s sexuality called
She Comes First: The Thinking Man’s Guide to Pleasuring a Woman. By Ian Kerner.